An interesting question, with an absolutely ridiculous and presumptuous answer. One can always follow the rule about always doing more than the other person, and never counting who does what and how much. That is not enough, and it never will be. The key is to accept that it’s how it’s going to be as a fact of life, an axiom, a baseline of human condition, and try to not think of what could have been, ask too many questions, and focus on the few positives that do exist.
It helps to know that you’re not the only one. And I knew it ahead of time, too. But it was arrogant to think that by being informed we could somehow do better.
https://qz.com/708438/the-parenting-happiness-gap-is-real-new-research-confirms/
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